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Skills, not spills

Choose a friend or family member (or a stranger, for that matter, as they will tell you what they think, not what they think you want to hear) and tell them what you decided were the best things you’ve done. Based only on this information, ask them (or yourself) what they imagine you’re like. Write down the long list of skills and qualities they come up with. See 7signs.org. uk for some examples.